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Kelly: Hello there!! What hours do you work being a firefighter? Do you work the 24 hour shifts like they do around here? I do not see how you could do that job, definitely an admirable job, I could not handle seeing people get hurt. I went to the Academy to be a part of the State Highway Patrol, but I could not do it. There is no way.

 
 

Ryan: Yes we do work 24 hour shifts, but get to sleep some so it is really not that bad. As for my paintings, I really don't do all that many of them and usually give them away when I do, so I don't have many around. I really enjoy the process and after that it is nice to give them away to be enjoyed by other people. I know what you mean about your dogs eyes. Natasha was the same way.

 
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Nicole: First I have to say that since I started watching The Bachelorette, I am so charmed by you... You're really the only reason I keep watching the show. I was wondering if you would consider being the next Bachelor... I know you said you probably wouldn't do this again but... That would definitely be a show worth watching. If only I wasn't already married...Oh and I really do think that when this show ends you will have a million ladies lined up at your door.

 
 

Ryan: I wouldn't do the bachelor. Actully I think I am pretty much done with reality TV and probably all TV for that matter. It really isn't me.

 
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Jennifer: In light of your experience on the show, would you consider going through this process again (ie. being the next bachelor)? Also, what have you learned about yourself through this whole process?

 
 

Ryan: I do not regret having gone on the show, but would never do it again. I really had no idea what to expect and find myself a bit overwhelmed. I am learning new things about myself everyday and hopefully becoming a better person through it all.

 
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Lisa: Hello!!.....Obviously your aesthetically pleasing AKA extremely attractive :) AND you're a firefighter which is one of the most noble professions...Yet what I find most appealing/interesting about you is your penchant for artisitc subjects....What inspires you to paint and write poetry? Is it a way for you to express your thoughts and emotions? Anyway, best of luck with everything!!....You're already a winner in my book!! :)

 
 

Ryan: life and my experiences in it are my inspiration for all that I do.

 
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Cindy: This isn't only oriented towards you as a candidate for a future potential husband of hers but for all others who could have been her possible suitors. Does it not bother anyone that she poses for these kind of websites and that Playboy might be her next stop.? Not that I am against it at all. I come from a French European cultured background and it is very normal to see nudity on beaches from a very young age onward. We do not view it as uptightly as most americans do. I actually think she is a beautiful girl with a beautiful body and she should do whatever makes her happy. I am just asking this question from an american perspective which I consider to be a conservative perspective. I do not know many men in the U.S. who would want to be engaged to someone who poses for Playboy. Now maybe you cannot speak for the other guys, but if I were to ask you that question, what would you say? Is this something that would bother you? Could you be engaged to a women who does any kind of nude modelling?

 
 

Ryan: Life is short and I support anyone who makes the most of it, ignores the pressures and prejudices of society. If my wife wanted to be in playboy or whatever, I would support in her decision. My advice to you would be to rediscover your European roots and enjoy your own life. Maybe we have all been in America too long.

 
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Lou: You seem to be so sweet, sincere, sexy-well, just totally hot! If things do not work out with Traits, which I hope they do not. (You seem to be too good for her.) Would you consider going on the Bachelor show?

 
 

Ryan: I think my reality TV career is over regardless of what happens.

 
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Talitha: How can we purchase Vail Fire Department Apparel? We would like to have one of those cute ski caps along with a Vail T-shirt! You look so cute in yours that we thought we better get one too!

 
 

Ryan: To get apparel you either have to come by the station or mail in a request. 42 West Meadow Drive Vail, CO 81657

 
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Karen: I wanted to let you know how much it is appreciated to see someone like yourself who is so warm, kind, sensitive and great-looking all in one package. Anyways, I was wondering how easy or difficult it was for you to be in front of the cameras while getting to know Trista? I imagine at times it's hard to forget that a camera is there?

 
 

Ryan: The cameras were tough, but I got sort of used to them and would try to focus on Trista and I and what was going on there. I am however, glad to be free from the ever present eye of the camera.

 
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Cheyenne: Seeing how you are on the show, you have a sentimental reason behind almost everything. You seem to sit back and think things out before you act. This is why I have come to the conclusion that there has to be a reason why you wrapped Tristas gift in a map. Don't know why, but this has been bugging me. Please, Please, respond to this question. PS....I know you must feel that you have to meet expectations but no need to worry... I won't be dissapointed if there's not any special meaning behind it. You already blow my expectations out of the water (of how a real man should be).

 
 

Ryan: I wanted her to know where I was staying. Actually I did not intend to wrap the painting, but was told to do so. I was stuck with whatever I could find and a map was it. No special reason.

 
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Jayne: I'm a big fan of the show, you've definitely captured the hearts of women everywhere. But I have already found my own firefighter, happily married, and raising another generation of firefighters. With all the other women gushing to meet you, hoping your still single and can capture your heart, I guess we'll never have that opportunity.....(it's little joke, kidding). The show is just fun for me to watch and your my favorite bachelor. I'm hoping Trista does the right thing and picks you. It takes a special kind of gal to be a wife of firefighter. It's more then a job my husband goes to everyday, it's our lifestyle. However, my point is I'm intrigued by your artwork. It's interesting to find out that you have only been painting for a short time. Although viewing it on a web site does not do it justice. Your really very talented. You seem to capture a lot emotion in your work and should experiment with more animals. Like the Tiger you gave Trista. My question is, thought about putting any of your art into print? Let me know, I'd be interested. If Trista does not choose you, it will work out just fine. After it's all over I can bet opportunities to come your way will be more then you ever imagined. But can tell you'll always be true to firefighting and Vail.

 
 

Ryan: I have made prints of the Fire Fighter painting and sell them with the profits going to the fire fighters association. Thanks for asking.

 
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JK: I just want to say after watching the first episode you were one of my favorites, not because I necessarily thought you were the one at that time, but because my 4 yr old is named Ryan. So when you walked out of the limo I thought "Oh his name is Ryan, I like him already". Well, little did I know at the time that you would end up being my favorite bachelor. And the reason now is not because your name is Ryan but after watching you and Trista together I truly believe that there is something very powerful going between the two of you. Watching the episode of the two of you on the overnight date made my heart start pounding so hard. The passion was just jumping out of the TV. I am a sucker for romance and I know when something is real. So I am choosing NOT to listen to the reports that Charlie is the one. If I am wrong about this then I am swearing off these reality shows forever! I know it must be hard to see Trista with Charlie in these final episodes but you know it's all for the ratings so please don't be upset with her. She loves YOU!!! Gosh, I hope I'm not wrong about this. I won't sleep for a week worrying about you. Take care and I wish you the best of luck, and love!!

 
 

Ryan: Please get some sleep. I will be OK. I promise. Thank you so much for the kind words. All my best.

 
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Judy: Now that the show is over whatever its outcome, have you looked at the message boards? You might be surprised how many fans you have.

 
 

Ryan: I don't read the message boards. That is my mom's department.

 
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Elizabeth: I know that you have probably been swamped with emails from screaming women all over North America, but I hope that this one may stick out in your mind! Though you are a very attractive and talented young man, I am not emailing you about the Bachelorette, or to tell you I love you......so you can relax! LOL.....I am emailing you to ask you about Vail. Like yourself I live for the mountains....I love skiing and hiking! A group of my friends and I are going to be taking a road trip in the not so distant future, and I wanted to know if you had any recommendations for accommodations or skiing packages? (nothing to fancy, and sorry....but I can't stay with you) Ahhh I'm funny funny gal....you know us Crazy Canadians!

 
 

Ryan: You really can't go wrong by coming to Vail. It is a beautiful place and you will certainly enjoy it. The Lodge is a good place to stay.

 
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Suzanne: I want to start off by saying that you are simply gorgeous. You are definitely the best bachelor on the show. I hope that Trista picks you. Whoever marries you is the luckiest woman on earth. However, if Trista is stupid enough to not pick you, what are your plans for after the show? Are you going to stay a firefighter or become a model? I hope to hear back from you.

 
 

Ryan: My plans for after the show will probably include a little vacation and then a return to life as usual in Vail as a fire fighter.

 
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Paula: You are a very good artist! I loved the painting you gave Trista (hope she appreciated it) and the others on your website. Do you have any formal art training or is this a natural talent (or both). I hope that if Trista picked you that all works out. If not, man oh man, you have so many women after you! I'm 43, so too old for you but was wondering if you had an older brother, cousin, or uncle???

 
 

Ryan: I was never trained in painting and just do it for fun. Unfortunately I do not have an older brother or single uncle.

 
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Alexis: Surprise...not a question about the show or your love life, just hoping to tap your local knowledge! My friends and I have planned a trip to Vail this month. They are all very experienced skiers and boarders - and this will be my first attempt at learning to board. I am planning to take one of the day learn to board courses and was wondering if you thought this was the best option (read somewhere that you are an avid boarder). The only tips I've received is trying to get the same instructor for the entire session. Any suggestions on where to go and what gear to have?

 
 

Ryan: That sounds like a good plan to me. Check out the learn to board program on vail.com and make sure you have at least one day away from the instructor to board with your friends. Surely whomever instructs you will know all the best places to go, so you should be fine there. Other than that, were goggles not sunglasses and bring warm clothes. It has been cold lately. Good luck.

 
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Stephanie: I can just imagine that you are inundated with thousands of e-mails from women wanting to date you if you are not "the one" when the bachelorette ends. Granted, I think you are charming, handsome, and adorable, but I have an important question to ask that is not a plea for affection. I am 27 years old, have been divorced, run my own business, and have very little time for dating. I am not particularly attractive and the older I get the more I feel like time is running out. I have a friend whom I've known my whole life and I adore, but I just can't find myself being "in love" with him, despite his obvious affections for me. He is successful and sweet, but I have never looked at him as anything more than a brother type. Most of my male friends tell me I should just "settle" for this guy because my time is running out, and I don't meet a lot of men in my line of business. My lack of self-confidence prevents me from just asking out men so my prospects at this time are not good. However, I just can't help but feel that I should not have to settle; that there is someone out there who will love me despite my looks and shortcomings. Do you think I should settle or hang on to the dream? When do I give the dream up?

 
 

Ryan: Love means compromise, but not selling yourself out. Don't settle, concentrate on making yourself happy and the most of your life. People pick up on happiness and are attracted to it. Keep your head up and enjoy your time.

 
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Melissa: How are you? I have heard how the show ends and personally I believe she made a mistake. Charlie seems nice, but you to sum it up in one word seem to be "amazing." Once the show started I think a lot of girls wished their boyfriends or the men in their lives were just like you. Anyway my question is how has this experience change your view on life? BTW: You are incredibly gorgeous!!!

 
 

Ryan: This experience has not changed the way I approach life. I think it has definatly tested some of my thoughts and forced me to be more open with myself. My life is certainly more hectic, but I still approach it day to day.

 
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Bebe: I'm not here to profess my undying love for you - well at least not in this email. =P I just wanted to ask about your experiences in your line of profession. What made you choose to become a firefighter (since your degree is in architecture) and what were some of your most exhilarating or scariest moments on the job? Any life-threatening experiences (on or off the job)? Best of luck with you and your future endeavors. America would love to see you as the next Bachelor (so that I can apply and win your heart over *wink*).

 
 

Ryan: I have always been intrigued by fire fighting. Upon further exploration I fell in love with it. There is not really one particular aspect of the job that keeps me interested, however I do enjoy the opportunity to meet and get to know my community.

 
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Jane: Reality shows have never impressed me; however, the glimpse of Ryan has kept me coming back every Wednesday night. I am getting the impression Trista missed the boat and chose Charlie. I was just curious how Ryan is handling this publicity and surely the plethora of well deserved interest.

 
 

Ryan: The publicity has been an adjustment for sure and has given me a new found respect for people who spend their whole lives in the spot light. I am anxious for everything to wrap up soon.

 
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Cyndy: I was just listening to the interview that you did on ESPN and I found something very puzzling. When you were asked about the fact that you guys were seen doing alot of drinking, and he commented and said was that supposed to help you all get rid of the pain of having to deal with Trista? And your response was, she's not all that bad! Not, she's a great girl! Not I think the world of her. Not she's the kind of girl I'd love to be married to, or that I could fall in love with, but she's not ALL THAT BAD! What's that supposed to mean? Are we to believe that everything that went on in the show was scripted and acted out. That your feelings for her were not genuine. I for one am beginning to believe that alot of these reality shows are scripted reality shows. In the last episode you not only said you were falling in love but you said you were immeresed in it and now on ESPN all you can say is that she's not all that bad! And I thought women were supposed to be the fickle sex! I thought we were the ones who were supposed to be flakey and change our emotions and feelings about a guy from week to week. Obviously I see that I am gladly mistaken. I think you are a great guy. Don't get me wrong. I am just a very skeptical and analytical person and this whole process does not seem very true to life if you ask me. Just look at the last bachelor program. Aaron and Helene already broke off their engagement and I predicted that from the day the last show aired. She was too high maintenance of a women for him. I have already been through the process of marriage and divorce and have been raising a few children of my own since they were babies. They are now on there way to being teenagers and I have unfortunatley nursed many friends through numerous troubled marriages along the way. Marriage is not a decision to be taken lightly and love is not the only thing that you can base your marriage on. I married for love. But eventually that love runs out and then you start having issues like bills, and mortgages and car payments, and lifetime goals, and how you want to raise the kids, and a whole slew of other more important issue and then all the love in the world won't get you through any of that. Most men I know would rather walk then deal with confrontation and trying to work out problems. But anyways enough about a lesson on life. I am just upset that you could say such a thing about her on ESPN after you show yourself on national TV pratically being encapsulated and swooned by her. So which is it? Are you? or was it just all an act?

 
 

Ryan: OK, First things first. The emotions I was feeling for Trista on the show were real, there is no way that I could fake the way I felt. Currently I find myself in a difficult position. I can not say exactly how I feel about her or I risk giving away the ending, one way or the other. In the interview, Trista was being judged in what I thought was an unfair way. So without giving away anything I tried to defend her and the situation we were both in. I may not have accomplished that, I don't know. I understand the dificulty of love and of life. You need to understand my situation. Not being able to tell anyone anything and to be judged on everything you say and do in regards to falling in love is not easy. I know there is no one to blame for this but myself, however, please try not to over think things. My emotions were real, I was falling in love badly. Whether or not I still am, I can't say...

 
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Elisabeth: I was just wondering what it was like to live in a house with all those men after the same woman.was it a lot of competitiveness or did you all generally have fun together?

 
 

Ryan: WE all got along famously, and still do.

 
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